Monday, January 22, 2018

Rebound relationships

Lumban, Laguna
09:13PM

Do you find it easy to trust after being cheated on and lied to by the ones who you expected to be true to you?
I guess it's not.

Is it easy to trust the same person who did wrong to you by lies and keeping things from you?
Neither.

Why do you have to cheat and lie to the person if you love her?
Why?

For my thoughts, YOU DON'T HURT THE PERSON YOU LOVE BY CHEATING AND DISHONESTY.

It traumatizes a woman after all the pain from dishonesty and disloyalty. You make it hard for her to trust people even to the people who really has genuine intentions. You make her build walls to the people.

It is indeed unfair to the one you love who devotes her precious time and the love she gives to you more than you deserve and just hurt her with your lies and bullshit reasons.

Come to think of this one...

She let you come to her world but you don't have an idea what she was before you came.
Pained.
Damaged.
Broken.

She let herself healed for three years and already an ample time to be at her best version for the next and hopefully the last man she will love.

But then you came. You promised her to love her and you even told her that you've been loyal but you never tell her that you could be loyal much as you had been in the past.

Yes indeed you WERE loyal. How come your loyalty did not apply to your present love.

Oh.. Wait!

How come enter to a new relationship if you are still broken and still in the process of healing?

Funny as it seems. Worst joke I ever known. A very loyal woman to a broken-hearted man pretending to be healed and ready to start anew with his new woman?
Ironic, isn't it?

This woman doesn't deserve to be a spare tire, an option B if the primary doesn't work and most likely to be a rebound.

Remember, there is someone out there who is far more deserving to her but she chose you even if she doesn't deserve a man like you.

Imagine how that woman will love a less-deserving man who cheats and lies.

Trust is like a glass, once it's broken, you can put it together but you can never put it back to it's original form.

For the last words,

Never ever cheat to your woman.
When you enter to a new relationship, make sure you have already vanished the traces of your past and don't even dare to step backwards into it as it may damage your future relationship.


Charcas


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Anong ganap pala today? Hehehe ayun so for my daily life, everything went fine naman. So far wala pa kaming pag aaway ni boyfriend. Upon going home from work, I just heard slight noises in the background. He was getting a blanket because he can't share bed with me. We just went to a bad fight yesterday for the same shit. A few minutes after he went down, I felt my stomach in a slight pain which is nangangasim. I went downstairs to look for milk. I ended up preparing a warm water until he noticed me in pain. He asked me, "anong masakit sayo?" I just said my stomach.
He wore his cap and went out and bought me a sterilized milk from a store nearby.
It was in can and he transferred it to a mug and handed it over. I can't even say thank you. Pride of course. I felt relieved thereafter. After that, my childish personality kicked in. I told him I want to stay outside but he stopped me. I resisted. He pulled me closer to him and hugged me, "dito ka lang".
Then we went upstairs.

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